Courting Disaster is my weekly relationship-advice comic where a reader asks a question, and you give the advice.
A reader writes...
Q.: My feminist wife has recently requested that I do not look at her naked, as it makes her uncomfortable. But she gets upset with me when I apologize for accidentally seeing her unclothed, saying that it's not a problem.
We sleep separately as she is a light sleeper and I am an incurable snorer, but are in a loving relationship and have a child.
I crave intimacy, and she says she does too, but there is always some reason it doesn't happen.
I don't see a way way out of this catch-22 situation. How can I broach the subject without looking like just another [dumb] male?
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