Courting Disaster Bonus Question - Jan. 25, 2012

Courting Disaster, my weekly comic about sex, love, and relationships updates every Friday. But sometimes I get to back-logged with reader questions, I have to double-up. For the next couple of weeks, I'll be featuring a bonus question on Wednesdays until I catch up.

I am 20 years old, and I have been on-and-off with a girl for 4 years now. Recently things had started to look really good, but all of a sudden she stopped messaging me during the day. Whenever I call her at night, she says she really cares about me -- and I know she does. It's just that she can be very inconsiderate. We have talked about it before but nothing changes.

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