Courting Disaster, my weekly comic about sex, love, and relationships updates every Friday. You'll laugh your pants off.This week's question...
Q. I’m female, 27, engaged to a great guy, 29. Everything is fine — with one exception. Our sex life is not exciting. The problem is I know what’s missing but I don’t know how to broach the subject. My first lover was into bondage, and I came to find the physical act of being restrained overpoweringly pleasurable. Towards the end of the relationship the mere act of having my limbs tied could bring me to climax before he did anything else. I’ve been too embarrassed to tell my subsequent partners. My boyfriend is somewhat conservative and more religious than I. I’d really like to experience the highs I had with Mr. X with my current mate. How do I tell him I want to bring ropes to bed?
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