A reader writes... Q: A regular reader has submitted some of his New Year dating resolutions for 2010 to help would-be lovers understand more quickly when someone's just not that into you. He had some decent-enough suggestions such as: If it takes more than two hours for someone to return a text, they are not interested. With e-mails, he suggested that if it takes days to get a return e-mail, that's another sign that someone isn't interested in pursuing dating relationship. Some of his other suggestions are: If there is no hand holding on a date, chances are there is no interest. If a good night kiss is not on the lips, forget it. You're a friend. Accept it and move on. If they say they can only meet early and for an hour, then you're not worth it to them. If they ever say, "Âwe can do this as friends,"Â bail quick, you're getting nothing but frustrated. Remember the phrase, "they are letting you know."Â Because if you see or feel any of these things, be aware, unless you want to be just a friend.