Courting Disaster, my weekly comic about sex, love, and relationships updates every Friday. You'll laugh your pants off.

This week's question...

My husband and I have been married for 20 years. We have three children and I am committed to the “long term” of this marriage. We seemed sexually compatible during courtship. Shortly after the honeymoon, we had sex less and less (he is a big hunter and the “hunt” was over!) Now we are down to two or three times a year and only if HE feels like it. This just makes me want to cry. Over the years we have tried counselling, medical doctors, testosterone therapy, talking, honesty and everything I can think of. I have learned not to ask, caress or flirt as not to risk repeated rejection. Sometimes I feel like I am slowly dying inside. My husband knows all this and I think he cares and loves me but because he has a very low sex drive, it is not an issue for him. He believes that I am putting too much emphasis on sex in a marriage and that it is not what makes a good marriage. I believe that a true intimate relationship is very important. I have no interest in anyone besides my husband. I guess I am closer and closer to giving up totally. What a shame, part of me feels like I am wasting my life. Am I putting too much emphasis on sex?

Go on over and offer some advice.

The second Courting Disaster book is now available!

Compiling about two years of Courting Disaster comics, this book has a slick, glossy cover and full-color printing on every page.

It's way cooler for your sweetie than chocolate, so get on the stick and get this baby shipped to you in time for Valentine's Day.

With any luck, your sweetie will laugh their pants off!

The first convention appearance of the year is rolling around, and it's gonna be cool for several reasons.

I'm going to be a guest at Katsucon 14 is Feb. 15-17 in Washington D.C.

First off, it's my first anime convention. And, from everything I've seen so far, it's bound to be an experience to remember. I'm already looking forward to working on this convention report!

Secondly, it's the weekend that I'll be celebrating eight years of doing a daily comic strip!

And, last but not least, they're throwing an awesome contest in which one lucky attendee of Katsucon 2008 will win at least one item from most of the webcomic guests at this year's con -- including some cool Evil Inc merchandise!